Saturday, August 27, 2011

Inspiration

39. Act on "inspired" ideas.

Most of my "firsts" have been just to INdulge my fantasy list or to get over some INhibitions. This post has to do with INspiration- some I have received and some I want to pay forward to inspire my faithful readers :) Both of you... haha~

a) The idea for this blog of mine was inspired by Micah's "30 by 30 list." She has an official list of things she wants to accomplish before she turns 30, several years from now. The birth of 2 babies in 2 years has slowed her down a little, but I'm confident the list will be completed. Thanks for the inspiration, daughter!

b) Another Micah-inspired act occurred today. A few years ago, she read an article about simplifying your life, paring down to only 100 possessions. No, she didn't go quite that far, but she did actually make a poster of 100 things that she gave away or sold, freeing up some space in her house. My attempt at this was even a little smaller, but better than nothing! Today I gave away 55+ items to Big Brothers/Big Sisters. If I did this once a month for the next 55 months... ahh, how great would that be! I would feel like I had a new big ole house :)

c) A few weekends ago, we kept an adorable little 11-week old baby boy for a weekend. The inspiration for this act, besides the selfish one of getting my hands on a really cute & smiley baby, was The CALL. This is an amazing organization that promotes foster care and adoption of children in need. The baby we kept is in the foster home of a sweet family in our church. They wanted to take their older child for a last-minute quick vacation before school started. My challenge to others (and to myself) is to look for ways to be of a little help to families as the idea pops into your head. We all know of someone that could use the surprise of a casserole or a few hours of baby-sitting or "I'm headed to the store- what can I bring you?" My other inspirers- Tommie & Jill & Pam, who amaze me with the giving of their time to others, just because. Further suggestions are welcome---

d) For several months, I have felt a desire to put into writing how my former pastor of several decades continues to influence me, and to invite the input of others. I finally got around to this, with an open-ended post on Facebook. I LOVED reading what others remember. (Hopefully, just so I will have it forever, I will copy these comments into a future blogpost.) My other inspiration for this act was my friend Andi, who is quick to act when she feels the Holy Spirit leading her to do something, no matter how strange it may seem. Challenge- jot that note you have been meaning to send to someone, do that random act of kindness you've been thinking about, make that long-overdue phone call to a friend, etc.

Other suggestions???

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Frank Lloyd Wright house

38. Visit a Frank Lloyd Wright creation.

This is on my real-live, written-down list of things I want to do. And I've wanted to experience this for a long time, well before I even heard the term "bucket list." My Dad was an architect and instilled in me a love for well-designed buildings. I think my Dad even studied under Fay Jones, the architect of Thorncrown Chapel and the chapel at Garvan Gardens, and a student of F.L. Wright. (I'm not researching these facts as I go, so my disclaimer is that these are the facts as I have them in my head. Hopefully they are not part of a fantasy I have invented...) I even own a DVD set about the life of F.L. Wright- found out a little TMI about him, but still greatly admire his work. :)
On this last trip back home from Colorado, I made Brian take a 10-15 minute detour at Kansas City to see the home pictured below. It is now a museum, and only open by appointment, so all I could do was walk around it and take pictures, but that is closer than I've ever gotten before! (We did drive by a FLW-designed residence in Frankfort KY when Micah lived there, which pacified me for a few years.) Hopefully before my next birthday I will actually set foot in a FLW building. I have plans brewing in my head for one in Tulsa...






Monday, August 8, 2011

Massage

37. First massage

Sadly, this was FAR from what I had hoped it would be. My last day of summer freedom was this past Friday. I had a delightful frou-frou lunch with a friend :) then had a nice chatty haircut, then headed to my much-anticipated 1st massage. As were a few other firsts, this one was sponsored by Groupon. I'm beginning to feel that you might not get the full experience of services when the establishment's Groupon participation makes their business bloom uncontrollably. Or maybe this particular massage therapist is just not very friendly even when business is slow.
I located the side door entrance to the "salon" and headed down the stairs to the tiny, multi-door (all closed) hallway. Turned around a few times & then saw an office door open. Very secluded. Hmmm- a little freaky to one who watches too much CSI. Long story short, I never fully relaxed, which I imagine is essential to an enjoyable massage. This therapist, who is friends with some very nice men from my church (that helped a little), was a short, very strong, quiet man. The music was soft & relaxing, but the songs were like "In the Arms of an Angel," etc. Again, not relaxing when you are in a secluded office with a stranger & wearing only 1 item of clothing and a wonderfully large sheet. It did smell good, I'll give 'em that, like eucalyptus or something. I just had the creepy feeling that Mr. Quiet Guy could snap my vertebrae in an instant. And I was so slippery when I left, I thought I would slide out of my flip-flops! My shoulders are just now over the muscle soreness of the whole situation.
Sorry to be so complaining. Maybe some day I will try a massage again- anyone know a small talkative woman you could recommend???

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Some second/firsts & grandson's heartbeat

We made a trip to Colorado last week to help keep Micah & Ben company while daddy Daniel was in Kentucky working on his doctorate studies. While there, I got to ENJOY a mother/daughter pedicure (updating first #15) and branched out big time with my polish color (updating first #28). Even Ben commented on my bright toenails :)

36. An OB appointment with Micah

As blessings would have it, Micah had an OB appointment on Monday while we were there. So I got to go with her and hear baby Isaac's heartbeat. Brian went to an appointment with her when she was pregnant with Ben (she had a LONG list of Daddy-Do chores and I couldn't take off work), so I was not about to be outdone! :) It was so wonderful to, first of all, see my daughter so far along in her pregnancy, and then to have the special treat of hearing my "baby"'s baby's heartbeat. I truly did consider it a real-live blessing! And I'm one of those women who love to feel babies in tummies kicking & wiggling- and Isaac really puts on a show. The few times Micah sits down... she seems to immediately put her hand on her little boy baby and loves to enjoy his antics. She is a wonderful mother! Love getting to watch her in action.

While we were there, Micah had all 3 of us painting her playroom. Now that was quite a sight to watch! I'm not gonna count this in my official "firsts"- though it definitely was one- but I was the most able person on the crew this time. Picture Micah 7 months pregnant and Brian with his right arm in a sling from his rotator cuff surgery. That left me to get up in a chair and paint along the ceiling line. (I'm so "handy" I can't even think what that action is called...) Brian did paint with his left hand with a roller and Micah painted close to the base boards. And we got 'er done! Looked just fine.

And now, just for fun, here's a picture of cutie Ben wearing Granddad's sling (sorry about the almost closed eyes- he's a moving target):



And Granddad in his lovely sling with Jude & Cale:





Snuggling takes a little planning & maneuvering, but it CAN be done!